Some things that may be helpful include:
Coping with a Relationship Breakup, HelpGuide.org
Breaking Up Without Breaking Down by Kristina de la Cal, 2007
Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You by Susan J. Elliott, 2009
UT's Counseling & Mental Health Center (CMHC)
Call 512-471-3515 for information on setting up an appointment with a counselor.
CMHC also offers the CMHC Crisis Line: 512-471-CALL for a telephone counselor.