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PSA: Generalizing and attacking other Pashtuns is not allowed here
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Salamoona,

We started this sub six years ago because we got tired of seeing Pashtuns/Afghans scattered in spaces racked by infighting and toxicity. Our goal was to create a small forum for our people to get together in a fun environment away from all that. I'd like to think we've achieved that for the most part, thanks to the 99% of users who are perfectly normal individuals.

Sometimes however we get users who come in to stir the pot. Usually these are newer accounts that will attack all Pashtuns on one side of the Durand Line, claiming to speak on behalf of Pashtuns on the other side. While it's clear these are trolls (often outsiders), more and more we're seeing established, well-meaning users take the bait only to make the situation worse.

That is unacceptable and will result in a ban if it becomes a persisting issue. This isn't TikTok where diasporic kids tear each other apart based on British lines on a map. Generalizing and attacking Pashtuns is never allowed here. If you see that here, just report instead of engaging.

Now we're not so naive as to believe in Pashtun unity above all else. Of course we want nothing to do with the many Pashtuns out there who actively harm our interests. Therefore this sub supports unity around a basic pro-Pashtun position: promoting our language, preserving our traditions, and opposing anti-Pashtun state violence. If you are a Pashtun/Afghan (lar or bar, in the watan or diaspora, religious or secular, regardless of tribe) you are always welcome as long as you have no problem with these basic pro-Pashtun positions.

Manana 🙏


Posts on the upcoming Pakistani election or its aftermath will be removed.

Is it ok not to get married? Is it ok not to get married?

Salam I am 21m about to graduate and a practicing muslim alhadmulilah, from what I know, marriage is sunnah and I had very rough childhood that forced me to be independent since childhood. I had very bad experience with the opposite gender as well and I just dont feel like getting married at all, when I have desires, I used that drive towards my goals and gym. I wanted to marry someone, but it was not in my qismat ig and Allah is best of planners, but I would rather support my parents and my small siblings and lead them to a path I havent reach in this dunya and the hereafter inshallah than a random girl who wasnt there for me since day 1 except my family and Allah only alhadmulilah. Marriage is just not for me.