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[–]angelsofher 78 points79 points  (66 children)

love them but i saw this coming from their one sided open relationship

[–]puddincup001 61 points62 points  (49 children)

"One sided open relationship" sounds like cheating with extra steps

[–]angelsofher 49 points50 points  (48 children)

she wrote “worth it” abt cheating on soren so ur not wrong

[–]redmercedes87 37 points38 points  (45 children)

There's no proof of that whatsoever lmao. All we know is she said in the Discord once that she and Soren tried an open relationship at one point. We've heard pretty much nothing from Soren's side, being that it's a private relationship that's nobody's business. Plus they've been dating since they were literally 15....I can't think of any good reason anyone would want to be in a relationship that long at that age

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    [–]Sk8ordy3 4 points5 points  (2 children)

    “I don’t know if cheating had to do with a breakup “ lmfao of course that factors into it.

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      [–]Sk8ordy3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

      Lmaoo and look how that relationship turned out. Lesson of the day is cheating is always a deal breaker

      [–]jupitergetsstupider 0 points1 point  (2 children)

      which song ? sorry i’m slow

      [–]kazookid67 0 points1 point  (0 children)

      worth it, on beas album fake it flowers!

      [–]stargirlvenus 22 points23 points  (36 children)

      there’s an interview she did and she said that it was really hard for soren to help her shoot the MV for worth it bc he knew it was about her cheating on him

      [–]VanillaWinter 5 points6 points  (29 children)

      Ouch. Immediately lost all respect for her

      [–]stargirlvenus 7 points8 points  (26 children)

      i feel like she isnt that way anymore. cheaters suck but people make mistakes and as long as they learn from it, shaming them isnt gonna help

      [–]VanillaWinter 2 points3 points  (25 children)

      It’s been like 2-3 months no? Once a cheater always a cheater anyways.

      [–]stargirlvenus 8 points9 points  (24 children)

      i highly disagree. i was a former cheater and it had a lot to do with self sabotage and worthlessness. i healed those parts of myself and now i cant imagine being unfaithful to my bf. its like saying “once a thief always a thief”. not everyone who’s stolen once in their life continued to do so.

      [–]The_Flying_General 9 points10 points  (12 children)

      Cheaters cant relate themselves with thieves. Situation makes theifs, mainly poverty. What Situation create cheaters? When you people lose interest/love, instead of facing it or communicating about it, you resort to run and hide. Omg i fking hate cheaters.

      [–]Snow_147 4 points5 points  (0 children)

      I know this is random but I appreciate your honesty.

      [–]The_Flying_General 6 points7 points  (1 child)

      Lol. Ofcourse a 'former' cheater would say this.

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        [–]milkyspacecows 1 point2 points  (2 children)

        "I was a former cheater" Yeah, no. I understand that outside factors can contribute to cheating and that it doesn't always have to do with losing feelings for the s/o, but you shouldn't blame it entirely on that. At the end of the day, you had a choice, and you chose wrong. It's still your fault regardless.

        [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (1 child)

        Same. Knew something felt a little wrong when I was on her live and she described eying / liking multiple guys while dating Sorren at the time.

        [–]3eeli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

        im pretty sure they’ve been on and off for those past 7 years

        [–]heythisisleah 2 points3 points  (4 children)

        Which interview is that?

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          [–]stargirlvenus 0 points1 point  (2 children)

          yeah that one

          [–]Withnail- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

          People at thier ages want to “experience “a lot of different people. It’s called being in your early 20s. Divorce rate for people who marry at their age is 70-80%.

          [–]amira2oo1 35 points36 points  (3 children)

          Do u mean that it was open for her but not him?

          [–]angelsofher 41 points42 points  (1 child)

          yes exactly that it wasnt fair for him imo

          [–]Intelligent_Ad_6401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

          Not true she said online stop

          [–]Intelligent_Ad_6401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

          NOOO don't believe them she confirmed she didn't cheat

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            [–]lunamothbabe 14 points15 points  (1 child)

            Confirmed she had said it in a live before

            [–]Withnail- 1 point2 points  (3 children)

            Whose side was open?

            [–]angelsofher 11 points12 points  (2 children)

            bea’s side, soren was not allowed to sleep w other girls (she said this on IG ages ago)

            [–]iforgotmypassword818 0 points1 point  (0 children)

            rly? then how could it “not have been her idea” as she says?

            [–]toastedmickey 1 point2 points  (3 children)

            sorry i'm new, did bea cheat?

            [–]Tato101 1 point2 points  (1 child)

            https://www.tiktok.com/@userr10.36/video/7118037488706555182?\_t=8TrR4rDRpMo&\_r=1

            No she didn't, apparently the open relationship wasn't even her idea, she just went along with it

            [–]toastedmickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            oh ok ty

            [–]BlueBig_3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

            It wasn't one sided

            [–][deleted] 42 points43 points  (3 children)

            oh god. soren and 1999 ain’t gonna be the same

            [–]sloppyjeaux 29 points30 points  (2 children)

            horen sarrison too ☹️

            [–]Miyumiyu-_- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

            My favorite bea song :(

            [–]wherearetheavocattos 5 points6 points  (0 children)

            gosh i like this song so much. it feels a bit awful now knowing they'd broken up now

            [–]spAcecr4ft 41 points42 points  (1 child)

            Bea may have always wanted to break up with Soren because she is into hookup culture and Soren is unable to let her go. But we don't know anything about them. Maybe its for the best :((

            [–]spAcecr4ft 20 points21 points  (0 children)

            They are still so young and don't deserve to be hurt in a relationship. They have the option to grow without each other's presence. So good luck to their future endeavors ♥️

            [–][deleted] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

            what?!? lovesong just came out! i wonder what happened.

            [–]JuxtaposeAli 29 points30 points  (5 children)

            Urgh her debut album is gonna be an awkward listen for them now….it really is safer to write songs about heartbreak! I’m sorry- hope they are both ok.

            [–]Paperback-Writer- 27 points28 points  (4 children)

            Her debut has a song about her cheating on him so i mean

            [–]JuxtaposeAli 5 points6 points  (1 child)

            I know but at least they were back together by then. Hits a bit different if half your debut’s about your boyfriend then you break up 😬

            [–]Away-Fee-6677 24 points25 points  (0 children)

            Try half your discography 😭

            [–]justinakamarcel 1 point2 points  (1 child)

            What song

            [–]messythelioma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

            worth it

            [–]lunamothbabe 41 points42 points  (3 children)

            I kinda expected this tbh I sensed something btwn her and Luca bc they seemed to be getting very very close

            [–]CremeAdmirable1478 18 points19 points  (0 children)

            I thought that too. I never knew much about bea and Soren’s relationship, and it’s so romanticized that it’s hard to see them as real people sometimes. I do remember seeing a lot of posts with her and Luca and wondering what soren thought. I think it is kinda messed up that it was a one sided poly relationship.

            [–]lustrouxs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

            i realised this too😭

            [–]nekotrashhh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

            Omg I noticed that too but didn’t learn abt their breakup until today 😭

            [–]Kenny4yourthots 17 points18 points  (0 children)

            She posted a little video on her story talking about dropping her new song ‘10:36’ with ‘Seven Years’ by Norah Jones playing. The lyrics in that song are pretty evident of what she’s going through right now.

            [–][deleted] 12 points13 points  (4 children)

            Pretty sure they blocked eachother on ig too hjdskhgjkfj

            [–]Iburntmyburrito 2 points3 points  (3 children)

            how do you knowwww damn :((

            [–][deleted] 8 points9 points  (2 children)

            on bea's instagram he isn't tagged in anything anymore and all of his comments are gone and vice versa </3

            [–]ikij 0 points1 point  (1 child)

            When you block someone their stuff is still visible to others

            [–]Scrumplol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

            it isn’t

            [–]gdude9977 12 points13 points  (0 children)

            So you’re telling me there’s a chance??

            [–]Withnail- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

            Oh, Bea, stay off TikToc except for the promotional stuff you have to do. Not a hub of intellect and growth. As for Soren, we’ll, that’s what 21 year olds do, pledge undying love to each other then break up and date A LOT of people. Part biology part developmental but very expected.

            [–]CremeAdmirable1478 11 points12 points  (3 children)

            I wonder if she and Molly are still friends. Molly’s hanging out with soren and Amir. They seem to have a pretty interconnected friend group so I hope they can all be mature about it

            [–]3eeli 4 points5 points  (2 children)

            her and soren r dating now 😭

            [–]yanssss 0 points1 point  (1 child)

            Whereee did u see this? I wnana seee

            [–]3eeli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

            [–]Joyousdooby 16 points17 points  (0 children)

            Finally

            [–]throwwawayy3434 32 points33 points  (9 children)

            thank god, he deserves better than her

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              [–]throwwawayy3434 14 points15 points  (5 children)

              pretty sure she cheated on him

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                [–]rubyhesketh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

                Yeah, they both did a really good job at maintaining that image. I was shocked a while back when I found out about the cheating as well

                [–]two_betrayals 8 points9 points  (1 child)

                [–]throwwawayy3434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                interesting, tbf i was judging off her lyrics so i wouldn’t know

                [–]elletopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                no she didn’t

                [–]elletopia 3 points4 points  (1 child)

                nah girl you’re a hater she never cheated on him lmao. stop assuming!!!

                [–]throwwawayy3434 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                chill out, i literally based my assumptions off her lyrics of Worth It. at the end of the day, we’re all assuming we know what really happened but none of us actually genuinely know. and if i was a hater i wouldn’t even be on this sub or listening to her music enough that i read the lyrics too. i don’t condone cheating hence the first comment. totally open that i’m probably wrong. don’t know her personally at the end of the day

                [–]redmercedes87 15 points16 points  (4 children)

                Good for her. And him, I guess. I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone since you were 15...of course they'd both want to explore other options as it very well may have been their first major relationship. Bea has said in this subreddit's discord before that her and him tried an open relationship at one point, but for some reason people want to pretend she "cheated".

                [–]No_Needleworker_6109 2 points3 points  (2 children)

                And why exactly can't you imagine being in a relationship for that long ? Do you enter into a relationship with someone with an expiry date attached to it ? Listen if you lose interest soon and are into hookup culture and casual sex don't fucking enter a relationship and break someone's heart like Bea did

                [–]theluvbot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Late reply but I totally agree with you on that.

                [–]pee-smell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                I think they were pointing out the age, not the length if the relationship. a lot if people don't end up with the person they dated as a young teen because you can change so much from when you were 15 than when you are in your 20s.

                You can become totally different so it's not unexpected to grow incompatible with someone you first dated as a teenager. obviously, some people are able to make it work which is commendable. but iys rare and I don't think they were thinking of hookup culture when they were 15 lol. people just change more in their teens

                [–][deleted] 6 points7 points  (2 children)

                That's insane. Care is my favourite music video and Soren directed that.

                [–]ElectronicCourse2457 17 points18 points  (1 child)

                yeah her music videos r gonna suck now without sore

                [–]CremeAdmirable1478 7 points8 points  (0 children)

                I did notice that her last few music videos weren’t directed by bedroom and I was kinda disappointed. Maybe stuff was going on even back then

                [–]TheOddNightingale 4 points5 points  (0 children)

                my time to shine

                [–]LimpSnail_836 12 points13 points  (0 children)

                I no longer believe in love.

                [–]MissTinyTits 3 points4 points  (0 children)

                Wait wha-

                [–]breakfastindior 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                oh god

                [–]bindrich3 2 points3 points  (6 children)

                when I saw them both on tour in 2019 they were not on best terms.

                [–]stargirlvenus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

                how so?

                [–]lustrouxs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                yeahhhh how come?

                [–]rubyhesketh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                I wanna know too

                [–]Cha_ye_bae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

                Yea what happened?

                [–]pipetwow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                did Eliana and Oscar break up too ?

                [–]KryptomaniacMaximoff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

                well, i don't know about bea wanting to be in an open relationship since she is dating someone else now (jake erland a.k.a. the guy behind glue song).
                and i'm not so sure either about her being the bad guy in their was-relationship since soren went on to date bea's ex-best friend, (they unfollowed each other too on instagram) fiona mccleod.
                right now, soren and fiona are getting a bit of heat on tiktok for posting a picture together with a lyric from bea's song that i think was about soren too.

                [–]baebadoobee 1 point2 points  (2 children)

                Why did I just learn about this today… I am truly shook

                [–]Complex_Main_8401 5 points6 points  (1 child)

                she even has a new bf by now lol

                [–]LaCh1caLoca 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Who's her new bf?

                [–]ninjazmy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

                Are they still friends at least ?