The most celebrated meal of the year shouldn't also be the most nerve-racking. Prepare to be prepared with updated classics, no-bake desserts, and more in our Thanksgiving 2015 guide.
Five years ago, I decided to throw a festive Thanksgiving with friends—and have been hosting Friendsgiving ever since. Brave enough to try it yourself? Find at least three other people to make this thing official, and call your parents to tell them you’re not coming home this year. (You can do it! You’re a grown-up!). Here’s how to pull off your own Friendsgiving.
Friends don’t let friends cook the meal by themselves—this is a potluck. Set up a Google Doc with categories (e.g., “Stuffing x2”) that your guests can sign up for. Whoever is hosting cooks the bird.
If you’re short on table space, rent a few card tables. Don’t worry about how they look; an inexpensive tablecloth from IKEA or Target will do the trick.
You don’t need fancy wine glasses, either. Stock up on vintage tumblers or, better yet, used Ball jars. The only rule: no plastic.
Don’t have formal place settings for 16? Me neither. Pick up mix-and-match vintage silverware and plates for next to nothing at a flea market, or ask a few friends to bring some. The eclectic setting would probably kill your mom, but this crowd certainly won’t mind.
It may be casual, but it’s still Thanksgiving: Paper napkins have no place at the table. I set the table with bandannas I bought at a thrift store.
Plop down a cooler filled with ice. It would look out of place in your Aunt Linda’s fancy kitchen, but your friends just want the drinks cold.
If your Friendsgiving is anything like mine, there will be lots of kids running around. I won’t allow iPads, but I will put lo-fi entertainment on the TV, like A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving or any Pink Panther cartoon.
Serve everything buffet style. Make cards that say what each dish is and who prepared it to make it feel personal.
Give an award for “Best Dish,” as voted on by a show of hands at the table. (The host cannot win.)
Wish them a Happy Thanksgiving. Do not brag about how much fun you’re having. Do not say, “Why didn’t I do this years ago?”
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