How Get Your Crush to See You As a Sexual Being

Before you start pawing him, "touch your own body, like your collarbone if you have a necklace on, or your finger to your lips," Slotnick suggests. These are subtle flirty body language moves that show an openness and sensuality, establishing you as a sexual being.

Sex up what you're wearing, says Slotnick. No one's suggesting you bust out fishnets and a garter belt or anything, but some dipping necklines, bare shoulders, skinny jeans, bright lipstick, or whatever you feel sexiest in, couldn't hurt when you're around him.

"Communicate with your eyes," says Slotnick. "Have short, direct eye contact, but then look away, as if it's a game of tag." Slotnick also says to not "be afraid to face him and look him in the eye." Also: "A certain raised eyebrow with it can be very sexy."

Waiting around for your crush to notice you doesn't always pay-off. "Sometimes if you have a hook-up or a fling who isn't him, it makes you exude sexuality a little more, and he'll see that," explains Slotnick. But watch who you're getting frisky with: "Don't hook up with his friends! There is a "bro code", warns Slotnick. "If you're all in a group of friends and you've hooked up with one of his other friends, he may have to wait six months or so to even go there with you."

"Try to maneuver for time one-on-one," suggests Slotnick. "Because you're ending up in a group with him or it's because you work with him, he's not getting that alone time to really get to know you and notice you."

"Picking topics of conversation that are a little more flirty or sexy helps," Slotnick suggests. "If you normally talk about work or family or boring stuff, you might want to talk about a fun travel thing or something you do in your leisure time."

It has nothing to do with skinny girls getting the guy. There's an added bonus to hitting the gym: "You exude a certain confidence," says Slotnick. "You just feel better, and it shows."

"You definitely don't want to sleep with the guy right away to get his attention and you don't want to be too overtly sexual," says Slotnick, who says putting it all out there too soon can jeopardize the shot at a real connection. Another warning: "Don't talk about people that you're dating or ask him about people that he's dating. He may be happy to share with you, but it doesn't make him think about you in a romantic or sexy way." Noted!