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[–]Poemi 5737 points5738 points  (136 children)

Ballerinas are right up there with unicorns and princesses, at the top of the short list of things that inspire little girls inordinately.

So I like this.

[–][deleted] 1755 points1756 points  (37 children)

And just like unicorns you can only become a ballerina with an insane amount of dedication and practice

[–]xf- 227 points228 points  (18 children)

Until they google "ballerina feet".

[–]Poemi 86 points87 points  (5 children)

Yeah, that kind of sucks.

[–]dueljester 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nope. That's a horror movie in real life, all the respect for the dancers. Then all the sympathy for their poor, poor innocent feet.

I say this as a large guy that has hairy hobbit feet that can walk on hot stone with no issue, but cries when I stub my toe on a table.

[–]mijumarublue 26 points27 points  (3 children)

Dancers are so fucking metal. Dancers basically need to have their careers/technique set by the time they're 21/22 bc they only have a certain number of years before their body falls apart.

[–]Paprika_Nuts 21 points22 points  (2 children)

So like any other professional sporter? Except maybe curling I guess, that one seems chill on the body and joints.

[–]bdavs77 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Have you ever seen a curlers liver. That sport really gives it a beating.

[–]TooShiftyForYou 12.4k points12.4k points  (748 children)

For most of her career at the New York City Ballet she was the only African-American ballerina. Aesha retired from ballet in 2008 and started the Swan Dreams Project, a project that encourages African-American girls to become ballet dancers.

She's determined to use her dance background to change the stereotypes and misconceptions that people—including black people—have about women of color. "I want to show it's okay to embrace our softer side, and let the world know we're multidimensional," says Ash.

Source

[–]unknown_human 3973 points3974 points  (390 children)

Here's another great picture of her with a man playing saxophone on a bench.

"The photos were taken between my hometown of Rochester, NY and Richmond, CA. As a dancer I see things in movement. It was a bit difficult to explain what I needed. I wanted the images to be a bit provocative and to start a dialogue around stereotypes, labels and the powerful effects imagery has on all of us – good and bad."

https://www.dance-enthusiast.com/features/view/Aesha-Ash-16

[–][deleted] 157 points158 points  (4 children)

Such a lovely woman! I got a pair of her autographed shoes when she was in the company.

[–][deleted] 79 points80 points  (4 children)

This story sort of reminds me of another famous ballerina from the same ballet.

Maria Tallchief

Interesting read.

[–]AcidicOpulence 353 points354 points  (93 children)

I don’t want to dispute what she’s saying or take from her message in any way, but I wouldn’t say ballet dancers are soft, more like hard core :)

And who doesn’t want to be a ballet dancer when they are a kid :)

Edit for those unsure of my point, ballet dancers are toned sinew that comes from hard work and effort. I understand that her mission is to change perceptions in the black communities she’s working in. Hence the reason I said I didn’t want to take away from her message.

[–]mariegardiniere 131 points132 points  (1 child)

Ballerinas are soft and hard and delicate and resilient all at the same time. It’s a wonderful thing for children to learn because there’s a balance involved that lets them know it’s okay to be all of those things at once.

[–]Macktologist 181 points182 points  (28 children)

Ballet dancing is difficult, but I don’t think people associate it to “hard” in the sense of having a hardened personality versus a softened one. If you were to see a gangsta rapper and a ballet dancer side by side you would be really forcing it and trying to swim upstream if you said the ballet dancer looked like the “hard” one of the pair.

[–]Spartan2470 582 points583 points  (12 children)

Here provides:

The following caption and attribution for this image:

Ash in Rochester, NY. PC Thaler Photography by Arleen and Daryl Thaler for the Swan Dreams Project

Video for the Swants Dreams Project

And Information:

In 2011, she launched the Swan Dreams Project to inspire kids in the community she grew up in. The original idea was to post images of herself in a tutu all over Rochester. "I remember growing up and in the bodega you'd see images of girls in bikinis on motorbikes," says Ash. "I wanted to replace those with photos that show women of color in a different light."

She knew the power imagery can have: She still remembers what it felt like as a student at the School of American Ballet to see a photo of black ballet dancer Andrea Long. "That image was everything on days when I was feeling disenchanted. I'd see that picture of her, and know that the struggles I was going through, she went through them, too."

sh soon realized she didn't have the budget to fund her original plan ("I never realized how expensive a bus stop advertisement is!"). But she's made the images available through an online store, and often simply gives away prints at her own expense to schools and students in need of some inspiration.

Any proceeds she makes from the sales go directly to other organizations that are working to expand ballet in diverse communities. One large donation even led to a pointe shoe fund at dancer Robyn Gardenhire's City Ballet of Los Angeles school—and it helped one dancer who had quit ballet because of the expense come back to class.

Now a mother of two in San Jose, CA, Ash will also start teaching a free after-school ballet class at her daughter's public school next month. "I recently taught at Girls Inc. in Oakland, and one of the little black girls said, 'Are you the ballet teacher?' She just stood there, staring at me with her mouth open, like a unicorn had just walked into the room," Ash says. "You never know the impact you can have just by being a presence."

[–]Zombiac3 3204 points3205 points  (959 children)

Excuse my ignorance as I'm not familiar with ballet. I googled her and for a long time she was the only black ballerina in NYC Ballet***.Is this still not common? Is this big in America? Figured it was like a minor thing here and popular in Europe.

[–]Yellowbug2001 4072 points4073 points  (760 children)

It's my understanding that ballet tends to be the provenance of relatively rich families because you have to start kids at an early age and the lessons and equipment are super expensive. (Same with ice skating, singing opera, playing the violin, horseback riding and stuff like that.) There are fewer African American families who have the money to do that for their daughters so they are underrepresented in the ballet world.

[–]saccharind 563 points564 points  (29 children)

figure skated from early middle school into late high school

pretty much all the students were white or asian.

I still have occasional nightmares of an angry old Russian woman yelling at me for bad form

[–]alienbanter 136 points137 points  (15 children)

I was going to say I saw a comment similar to this on /r/FigureSkating recently, and lo and behold you're the person who said it spoke to you spiritually! Other skaters in the wild on Reddit lol

[–]saccharind 91 points92 points  (14 children)

oh my god hahahah there are literally dozens of us

while an older Russian woman screams at you because you have flutzed for the 100th time in a row.

was probably the most relatable post I've ever seen on that subreddit.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (2 children)

I used to take figure skating and violin lessons once a week each—once I got over the trauma of one European lady yelling at me for bad form on skates, I got another European lady yelling at me for my intonation. I still love doing both now and I can see how it was tough love (though some are definitely abusive), but man, practice was tough.

[–]Zombiac3 762 points763 points  (438 children)

Alright another stupid question, but what equipment. I know the shoes can cost a lot, but is there more than shoes, a tutu and a bar/mirror combo that you always see them practicing on in movies.

Edit: How common are ballet scholarships? Never heard of them until now.

[–]olafbond 2217 points2218 points  (155 children)

Personal training costs most. Father of 3 daughters here.

[–][deleted] 717 points718 points  (14 children)

Bless your soul.

[–]TeopEvol 495 points496 points  (11 children)

Soul was sold to pay for classes.

[–]steamwhy 89 points90 points  (8 children)

But rebought for cheap during the crypto dip on the 16th.

[–]Danoco99 14 points15 points  (5 children)

I was gonna invest in bitcoin the day before the dip but because reasons it wouldn't let me verify my ID. Then during the dip I was too afraid to buy because I thought the bubble was gonna burst and I would lose all my money.

I don't think this type of investment is for me.

[–]steamwhy 15 points16 points  (4 children)

I’ve got $1.5k in XRP, ETH, and LTC bought in October-November. If I sold Jan 3rd I could’ve got 5.5k out. It’s now about 3.1k. Best advice from a complete novice is to buy low and fucking don’t sell. Don’t sell at a loss ever, and don’t invest what you can’t afford to lose immediately and aren’t willing to invest long term. Don’t margin trade, and don’t touch BTC.

[–]DarthIcarus 21 points22 points  (2 children)

As a father of 3 daughters as well (all of which dance currently) I haven't had to worry about personal training costs yet. They all are just through the City dance program (which we pay twice yearly) plus costs for their outfits at recitals. It's only slightly more than baseball or softball costs (the recital outfits are what put it ahead).

[–]Church_of_Cheri 557 points558 points  (152 children)

Dance classes don’t come cheap, especially if they’re from a good instructor, a 19 week program that I just looked up cost $380. That’s for a once a week class, you can go up to 4 times a week, that’s $1292. At the end they usually have a program to show off what you’re child learned, requiring specific shoes, tutu and the works (minimum $150, and that’s separate from the items they need for class). A dancer will also go through shoes fairly quickly, once they get to prima ballerina level, it’s one pair of shoes per performance. If you want your child to be the best you have to get them all the classes, plus a private instructor, plus the best equipment to practice on at home, and then it’s driving them to classes, weekends, summer camps.... from what I understand the movie “I, Tonya” gives a glimpse of these high competitive worlds from the perspective of someone poor vs the rich kids that normally get to do it.

[–][deleted] 159 points160 points  (60 children)

Fuck and I thought Hockey was expensive.

[–]gakule 109 points110 points  (11 children)

Hockey is still expensive, even if you're not trying to be good at it!

[–]TheDanima1 202 points203 points  (28 children)

Ya, I told my gf that hockey skates were expensive, but she told me she buys a pair of dance shoes that cost half as much... Every 2 weeks...

Edit: this is an ex gf ☹️

[–][deleted] 85 points86 points  (1 child)

Yeah the fast replacement it what makes it super expensive

[–]TheDiminishedGlutes 24 points25 points  (5 children)

Do you even replace skates that much? I would think mostly the blade would need regular maintenance.

[–]borkborkbork99 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Depends on how much you play. And at what level. In college I went through a pair every season, but you never know when a puck might crack your chassis or the rivets may rip through the sole requiring a new pair mid-season. A decent pair runs around $300. A high end pair can easily go for for $600 or more.

Beer league/Rat hockey players might still have a decade old pair of skates. With anything like this, ymmv... and it really comes down to personal preference.

[–]MrMojoX 23 points24 points  (2 children)

Lived with ballerinas. They don't eat because they can't afford food on top of shoes. (Also the sadists that run the program calling them fat…)

[–]JamesTiberiusChirp 44 points45 points  (4 children)

Not to mention the costumes themselves. You're not just dancing in any tutu/tights/leotard that were one time purchases (and even aside from recitals they're not, you need multiple), nearly every time you have a recital you're buying a minimum $100+ outfit that you only wear once

[–]zlance 56 points57 points  (6 children)

Don't forget that health insurance. My friend had some sort of foot operation on both of her feet by 25.

[–]05141992 158 points159 points  (9 children)

Also keep in mind how often those shoes have to be replaced ($60-75 a pop). A dead shoe can seriously injure someone. I usually replace mine every 3/4 months and I am a casual dancer (4 hours or so a week in the studio to stay in shape, rarely perform or compete)

Training and lessons are usually a minimum of $25 per hour, and that's at the really cheap studios that are basically a repurposed warehouse. The extra fancy studios with teachers from conservatories cost about $75 per hour.

Performance wear is the most expensive initial purchase and the least practical purchase. Ever notice how smaller companies always have dancers performing in very simplistic costumes? Part of that is artistic styling, but I'm confident that a bigger part is the cost of a well made/ fitted tutu. Fortunately, it is not a regular issue for me anymore.

[–]Queenabbythe1st 59 points60 points  (4 children)

Also keep in mind dancers start age 3. My daughter needs new ballet and tap shoes every time she grows. Also new outfits for every growth spurt.

[–]icaaantusername 113 points114 points  (15 children)

Prestigious ballet school tuition can cost anywhere from $1,500 - $36,000 per year. While there are scholarship opportunities at every school, it’s still astronomically expensive. Pointe shoes: ~$90/pair. As a professional, I wear at least 40 pairs within 9 months, sometimes more depending on the production. Rehearsal wear is also expensive, as well as costumes, performance fees, etc. Not to mention, the ballet school you ultimately need to attend to receive the dance education required to become a professional is in another city/state and which means you’re also paying for room/board or an apartment for your middle school/high school students. Source: Am professional dancer

[–]cameron0208 20 points21 points  (1 child)

I work at one of the biggest ballets in the US. Some tuition charges:

3 years old: $1,000/year. Yes, at THREE years old. Level 2 (about 8-9): $2,055 Level 5 (about 12) $3,300 Professional Level 1: $6,550 (you’re not actually a professional at this level)

And it goes up to over $8,200.

Our summer intensive for 6 weeks is $2,900 for tuition, $3,170 for dorm. Plus fees, activities, and whatever else. Costs anywhere from $8-10000. For 6 weeks. Your numbers are VERY low.

[–]Anaxcepheus 10 points11 points  (1 child)

You should do an AMA for all the parents and perspective dancers!

As a father of two dancers, the oldest just starting pointe, you’re not kidding with costs. I think we’re up to $12k a year for both of them for just instruction and competition.

Every time my wife and I talk about reducing dance due to the cost, we watch them dance against their peers and how impressive they are—and just have a hard time robbing their dream away from them.

[–]Catamari 76 points77 points  (12 children)

The shoes are very expensive, and actually need to be replaced quite often - a professional ballerina can wear out a pair a week, and they often have multiple pairs going at one time, so they have a suitable backup if one dies at an inopportune time. Students won't go through them that often, but replacing expensive equipment even once is out of reach for a lot of families. The leotards and other dance clothes can be expensive as well, and many studios are strict about which clothes are acceptable (everyone has to match). Access to a suitable space for practice is hard to manage as well, and the floors of dance studios are often a special surface - not your run of the mill hardwood floor.

[–][deleted] 82 points83 points  (2 children)

I did ballet for 15 years (yes I was one of those rich kids) and I can confirm that racism is everywhere in ballet. Not just with black dancers, but also with Hispanic and Asian dancers.

Institutional racism in ballet is disguised as “bodytyping”, that is, hiring/selecting dancers all of a similar body type to be in the company. It happens to some extent in all major ballet companies in America.

George Balanchine (the “father” of modern classical ballet) really wanted his dancers to all look the same. He wanted a very specific body: tall, with long limbs, a long neck, and a small head. And since he wanted everyone to look the same, he also wanted them all to be white. He founded NYCB. They still body type A LOT, and so do every other company that teach his style of classical ballet - yes, there are different styles of ballet kind of like dialects of a language. Balanchine’s style is very popular, so many companies teach it and keep it alive.

So with NYCB consisting of tall skinny white dancers, there are very few role models for young people of color. A lot of young girls drop out because no one else looks like them and perhaps also because of bigotry on the teacher’s part. Add on the wealth aspect you mentioned, and you get very few black professional dancers at companies like ABT. It sucks.

I’ve seen teachers give the only black girl in class the short solo, so that the rest of the class (white) could do the corps (group dance). She was a very very talented dancer and deserved the solo. I think a lot of other girls were jealous. But it was also obvious she was put by herself so the corps could look homogenous.

I’ve seen audition judges make racist squinty-eye faces at Asian kids and praise the skinny little white girls, of which I was one.

People like Aesha and Misty Copeland are really important both to break the stereotype of white ballerinas and also to inspire young black dancers; to let them know they can make it.

Edit: I goofed

[–]WallyBrandosDharma 145 points146 points  (110 children)

Love your comment - I've been making the same argument to my idiot friends for years. Same reason there are very few black pole vaulters - minorities are under represented in US sports that require specialized equipment and specialized facilities.

[–]ladybadcrumble 41 points42 points  (34 children)

Yep. That's why lacrosse, polo, golf, etc. are all rich people sports. Sports where you can easily play a game in the street or at the park tend to have better representation. People can find ways to spend money on basketball (new shoes, better basket) or baseball (pads, gloves), or soccer (cleats, real goals) but you really only need a few pieces of equipment for a large group of people to play.

[–]Luder714 26 points27 points  (3 children)

I remember an NPR interview that I think was with Ash. She said that many times black ballet dancers were rejected because of their "shape". That is, to be frank, "baby git back".

[–]NoOnesAnonymous 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I seem to recall that being an issue for black figure skaters, gymnasts, etc. Same category of beauty standards.

[–]johnq-pubic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Family friends daughter was really involved in ballet. She was in line to make the National Ballet of Canada. The parents sold their house and started renting so the ballet could be paid for. In the end she got cut, and never made it to the big time. Ballet is fucking expensive.

[–]butwhyisitso 113 points114 points  (20 children)

I work in a university fine arts building with musicians, ballerinas, etc etc. Most of the black ballerinas danseurs Ive seen are male, which i never really thought was odd until now.🤔

[–]big_red__man 29 points30 points  (2 children)

I used to work at a red lobster with this guy when we were both going to WMU. I never saw him on campus because the CS students were about as far away from the theater as they could possibly have us.

[–]reasenn 70 points71 points  (12 children)

Male ballet dancers are usually called danseurs.

[–]Just1morefix 102 points103 points  (13 children)

I think during most of her tenure in the New York City Ballet, she was their only black ballerina.

[–]dinken_flicka84 610 points611 points  (65 children)

Not to mention that a belief in symmetry within performance and body type is still widely believed within the community. POC, and women with breasts and hips are frowned upon since they don't fit the ideal. Which is also why eating disorders run rampant within the industry.

Source: Was a ballerina for 15 years. Kissed my dreams goodbye when my boobies grew in.

[–]VapeThisBro 129 points130 points  (31 children)

I'm not going to speak for all Americans but from where I am from (I'm from Arkansas which is a poorer rural state) Ballet is something rich people send their kids to do. I don't want to be seen as racist for saying this but honestly its seen as something rich white people do by non-whites (I'm one of the non-whites)

[–]Its4achurchhoney 111 points112 points  (14 children)

I don't think it's racist to say that ballet is a very white sport when this post is related to the distinct lack of non-white ballerinas.

[–]Thallassa 45 points46 points  (5 children)

I'm a rich white kid from a rich white area and even among the people I grew up with it was seen as something as "upper-class". We were the upper class (for example music lessons/buying musical instruments was totally normal) and it was still pretty unusual.

[–]WallyWasRight 43 points44 points  (3 children)

There aren't many. Misty Copland is another; I just saw a book by her at the library.

[–]jups2709 30 points31 points  (0 children)

There are 2 documentaries on Netflix about ballerinas that helps explain this a little. A Ballerina's Tale is about NYC Ballet's first black principle dancer Missy Copeland. First Position is about young dancers trying to get into the Grand Prix and one of them is a black dancer. Her adoptive mom explains some if their struggles.

[–][deleted] 30 points31 points  (8 children)

When it comes to huge established companies like the NYCB, the statistics of black male and female ballet dancers are pathetic. It's because the way in which dancers are filtered into the company does not reach all demographics. You don't just show up to the NYCB one day and audition. It is the School of American Ballet which filters young apprentices into the company as young as 13-14 years old -- and no doubt, SAB has little incentive to ensure that minority children given an equal opportunity. Who's going to move their entire family out to NYC to train their child to be a ballet dancer?

And even for people who do, or for people who live conveniently nearby, it's very expensive to be a ballet dancer. Pointe shoes are anywhere from $80-100 (or more) a pop, and you go through them quickly.

EDIT: excellent NYT piece from 2007. Fascinating to note how LITTLE has changed since then other than Misty being promoted, which only happened recently! Very sad. http://www.nytimes.com/2007/05/06/arts/dance/06kour.html

[–]willief 592 points593 points  (13 children)

She looks like a fairy.

[–]darthbone 197 points198 points  (11 children)

Sounds so different when you say it in a Philly accent

[–]meowchickenfish 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Sound so different when you say in Scooby Doo's voice

[–]Kuonji 10 points11 points  (2 children)

Yeah. I read that line in Bill Burr's voice actually

[–]jayjay1164 640 points641 points  (219 children)

People trash Rochester, but I love it. House of Guitars! Also what she is doing is cool.

[–]ThisFckinGuy 157 points158 points  (24 children)

Always cool seeing home on here. And Rochester is awesome just a lot of young people leave due to jobs not being what they were.

[–][deleted] 84 points85 points  (18 children)

I graduated RIT in '09 and immediately left. No jobs in my field, few jobs in other fields. Granted that was right middle of the recession, and right after Kodak died.

[–]AWOLLoudMouth 249 points250 points  (14 children)

I live in Rochester, its great, but still garbage.

Edit: Plates

[–]BrunoP84 119 points120 points  (5 children)

Garbage... Plates!

[–]RoyElliot 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I live in Rochester, its great, but still garbage plates.

[–]meowchickenfish 94 points95 points  (62 children)

Why do they trash Rochester? KodakFail?

These are the reasons why I like Rochester:

-Huge deaf community (i'm fluent in sign language)

-Garbage plates (Yumm)

-A lot of awesome bars with niche items (ie: Swillburger, Happy Tea, Owl House, etc)

-Tons of diversity (a lot of different cultures)

-1 1/2 hour from Niagara Falls

-George Eastman House, Susan B Anthony and Frederick Douglas

-Tons Tons Tons of festivals in the summer

There are more but I'll keep it to this list for now.

[–]AceEpocs 33 points34 points  (15 children)

I'm a Rochester boy and I came here just to see the Rochester conversation. Swillburger is the greatest place on planet earth.

[–]gkern86 14 points15 points  (6 children)

Id commute from Albany NY to see movies at the Dryden. Rochester has a lot of great things about it - but all the same shitty things you find in all upstate NY cities.

[–]arefx 37 points38 points  (0 children)

fucking love Rochester.

[–]cuddlygiraffe 11 points12 points  (3 children)

I love Rochester. I've been here for undergrad/grad school for 7 years now and I couldn't imagine being elsewhere. What a cool city and so cool of her to do this!!!

[–]little_montenegro 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I visited a friend up there from NYC. I wish we had something as...overwhelmingly comprehensive as House of Guitars down here.

[–]Who_Dat_Whyteboi 91 points92 points  (0 children)

A very talented woman with a great heart. It's nice to see things like this. I knew many girls growing up that could have used an inpiration like her. Very beautiful to see.

[–]bluejumpingdog 328 points329 points  (3 children)

That picture made me think thats What a Disney princess would look like if they were real

[–]Haskillbrother 54 points55 points  (0 children)

WOOOO ROCHESTER ON THE FRONT PAGE FOR SOMETHING OTHER THAN CRACK AND DAVID BOWIE!!!!

[–]Those_Good_Vibes 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I don't have anything constructive to add here. I just think she's really pretty and this picture is adorable.

[–]djbehnke 287 points288 points  (27 children)

Rochester, NY? I means. It's relatively warm right now. But relatively warm is certainly not tutu weather.

[–]thrillhouse3671 152 points153 points  (6 children)

This is old

[–][deleted] 80 points81 points  (2 children)

A repost on reddit? Preposterous.

[–]TheStabbingHobo 26 points27 points  (3 children)

Plus there would still be some snow on the ground from plows.

[–]TieWebb 185 points186 points  (9 children)

Ballerina is the female equivalent of football player. Years of training for a short career that leaves your body messed up.

[–]AsteRISQUE 37 points38 points  (19 children)

Good for them, Rochester can always use more role models

[–]em3am 80 points81 points  (2 children)

grace and beauty

[–][deleted] 932 points933 points  (161 children)

She should show them her feet. Im sure that would turn off most people wanting to do ballet :D

Seriously, ballet dancers (and soccer players for that matter) have some mangled ass feet and toes.

Edit Since its not clear, this is a joke post. I dont want kids to get discouraged to do shit like this.

[–]dotlizard 472 points473 points  (36 children)

[–]cpumaniac1 249 points250 points  (7 children)

Ew, that was fine up until the toenail that fell off the toe. Interesting though!

[–]meowchickenfish 17 points18 points  (2 children)

For that description, I am not going to watch that video.

[–]i_pee_printer_ink 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think number six should have called it a day many years earlier.

[–]cy_sperling 140 points141 points  (71 children)

And they need hip replacements later in life.

[–]digidave1 62 points63 points  (6 children)

Yes but have you seen their butts

[–][deleted] 98 points99 points  (1 child)

I havent seen this woman's personally but my wife did ballet for a number of years and have seen hers.

I am thoroughly impressed.

[–]BartlettMagic 29 points30 points  (0 children)

this makes me really, really happy.

[–]PolarAlchemist 77 points78 points  (24 children)

Rochester represent!

[–]cuteintern 82 points83 points  (18 children)

WEGMANS

[–]Mj312445 49 points50 points  (13 children)

GARBAGE PLATES

[–]irrevocablybarvin 28 points29 points  (1 child)

I will always upvote wegmans

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

She's so pretty.

[–]Mandelish 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would have lost my damn mind if a ballerina just strolled up to my house like that.

[–]queenbnolonger 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As a black girl, I sometimes become extremely depressed by the way society views me. I'm not allowed to be a princess, a fairy, beautiful, prized, cute, lovable, soft, vulnerable, etc.

It's anguishing to be compared to other women and found to be lacking purity or gentleness no matter what I do or how I present myself. Black girls aren't ever described as demure and sweet. We have "attitudes", and we're "sassy". To the world, it seems, we're rough and need to be treated with unkind hands.

It may not be possible to change the minds of those with prejudices, hatred or simple misunderstandings/ignorance, but it's important to let black girls know they can be what they choose. They aren't destined to be less loved or appreciated than White, Asian or Latina women. We must challenge this unaccepting world. Edit: A word.

[–]MomoTheFarmer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This right here is beautiful

[–]big_paper_towel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She looks like a painting.

[–]i_pee_printer_ink 39 points40 points  (4 children)

What a stunning photograph. Style, poise, and a dramatic backdrop. She is utterly gorgeous.