Chapter 31
Narcissism and Sexuality
Laura Widman,
James K. McNulty,
Laura Widman
Search for more papers by this authorJames K. McNulty
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Laura Widman,
James K. McNulty,
Laura Widman
Search for more papers by this authorJames K. McNulty
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Book Editor(s):W. Keith Campbell,
Joshua D. Miller,
W. Keith Campbell
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This chapter reviews evidence of associations among narcissism and (a) sociosexuality, (b) infidelity, (c) STDs/HIV, and (d) sexual aggression. Given some inconsistencies in past research, we argue that studies may demonstrate stronger and more consistent links between narcissism and sexuality by using a domain-specific assessment of sexual narcissism. We conclude by describing several avenues for future research.
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