The Hot Guy Panel dishes on what makes them want to get serious with a girl and how to go from casual dating to boyfriend/girlfriend!
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1
Wanderlust
"The turning point from casual dating to a serious ordeal is when I keep finding my mind wandering back to the same girl. It's when I begin to realize that I don't even look at other girls anymore, and she's the only one who can draw me in. When I could fall asleep at night knowing that I would choose her over any other girl without question...That's when I'd consider getting into something serious."
-Cameron, 19
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2
Get Connected
"You just kind of feel that connection and that makes you want to spend more time with her and get more serious about her."
-Austin, 19
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3
Trust Is a Must!
"There are many things that make me want to get serious with a girl. The main thing, though, is when I feel I can completely open up to her and trust her — and when she's opened up to me and trusts me. The whole trust thing is the hardest part in my opinion, and once you're both good there, the rest is amazing!"
-Kodi, 17
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4
Talk It Out
"I want to get serious with a girl when there is a feeling that goes beyond physical attraction — a constant desire to simply be next to her. The change in relationship status has to be completely mutual or else things will not work out. There has to be a dialogue between the two people so they understand each other entirely and no one feels uncomfortable."
-Alex, 17
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5
B is for Boyfriend
"What makes me want to get serious with a girl is determined by a several things: First, if she's my type, and if I would mind seeing her every day. Second is her personality — how genuine and transparent she is with me. Third is if she would not only be a good girlfriend, but also a good friend, someone I can count on. Fourth is her family, the vibe, and imagining myself blending in with them. Last, but not least, I need some time to find out if it feels right, maybe even a few months. When everything seems like it is perfect that natural feeling comes over and I pop the question that I can't help but ask: 'Will you go out with me?'"
-Marc, 17
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6
The Bachelor
"I date a lot of people before I get serious with one girl. The reason I want to get serious with a particular girl is because I can see myself only dating her, instead of everyone else. The process of going from casual dating to an actual relationship can take awhile. For me, I usually want the girl to compete against the other ones to see who really likes me the most and who don't really care."
-Carson, 21
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7
On His Mind...
"A good way for me to judge if I want to get serious with a girl is if I am thinking about her and don't want any other guy to have her. When I feel this towards a girl, I know she is serious material."
-Paul, 17
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8
Seriously Cute
"I always like getting serious with a girl when she isn't dependent on me. She has stuff going on in her life and we are both just a "cherry on top" for each other. If I connect with someone and I am into her, I start to let her know by spending more quality time with her. And then when you're ready for it, you let her know how you feel and ask her to be your girlfriend. It should always be a positive and fun thing in your life."
-Lance, 19
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9
Do You Like Me?
"After a few dates, if the girl has a good personality and seems like she's really interested, then normally that makes me want to get serious."
-Brent, 16
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10
Gal Pal
"When you and your girlfriend can be comfortable around each other's friends it says a lot. It shows that you both know how you feel about each other and spending time apart with other people doesn't make you feel uncomfortable. Basically if a girl can hang out with your guy friends and you feel good about it, then you know you guys are close enough to get serious."
-Andre, 16
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11
Flirtexting
"Once a girl starts to text you and you've got a couple inside jokes, a relationship starts to form. If you only want to see that girl then you know that she's special and you should hold on to her."